Miserable people make other people miserable! I just heard it from Joyce Meyer and boy does it resonate with my reflections!
Do you sometimes feel like you've eaten food beyond expiry date after spending time with certain people? That's what I'm talking about. You can't help someone who doesn't want to be helped. If they make you miserable and don't accept changes or help you offer, the only sane thing to do is to keep away from them. Life is too short to spend it with people who bring you down.